A lot of my friends have Bucket Lists. Basically, it's a list of things you want to do before you die - kick the bucket. I didn't really feel the need to keep one - the things I want from life change .Three months ago, I was diagnosed with Lupus, and since then without really thinking about it, I've started making a list in my mind of the things I want to do, I guess because now I know I've got less time to fit it all in.